I SEE YOU, I BELIEVE IN YOU, AND GOD LOVES YOU.For Women Who Have A Toxic Mother-Daughter Relationship
Know that God is not done with you yet. While I struggled with growing up with a toxic, narcissistic mom, it has led me on a mission to help other “Unmothered” women. From discussing the traumas that impacted our childhood, to the healing of our hearts, I teach women to be set free from dysfunctional family ties.
Hi, I’m Phylis or your next Mama Mentor
This journey began with the first book “Unmothered Life With A Mom Who Couldn’t Love Me.” As I started speaking about dysfunctional moms, it led me to certifications such as being a trauma-informed coach and a certified LINKED® personality coach. Now, I host a weekly podcast of the same name as my book. With the growth of this movement, I started coaching women one-on-one to be confident in God’s love despite where they started.
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I’m an ‘unmothered’ just like you,
I knew that my home life needed to be different from the one I grew up in. I worked to change the generational dysfunctions that were taught to me. Now I have a 30+ year marriage, two beautiful daughters, two son-in-loves, and three amazing grandchildren. My greatest joy is being their ‘Phee Phee’ (grandma) but also the joy of helping other women break the toxic patterns that were taught to them.
If I’m not speaking or writing, I’m usually on Instagram or YouTube sharing about lifestyle things like clothes and makeup (because really, I’m just a girly girl at heart). I started ‘The UnMothered Podcast’ where I share tools of healing in your UnMothered trauma story.
Start Your Healing Journey Here. . .
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Patience and Grace 1-on-1 Coaching
Did you grow up with a narcissistic mother? Is your mom toxic? Was there addiction in your family? Are you the scapegoat for all your mom’s issues? Most importantly, are you tired of being the parent to your parent?
It’s time to reset your stories and start setting boundaries around your dysfunctional mother. You need a coach by your side to guide you in creating some new patterns and listen to your tender heart. One-on-one coaching is something that can benefit you. God won’t leave you abandoned, but you need help in taking the next action steps towards new systems that break off old habits. Contact me today for a FREE 30-minute consultation to see if I can help!
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Speaking For Your Next Event
Growing up with an alcoholic, narcissistic mother, I rarely had words of encouragement or approval. As a young woman, I often felt “uninvited” when I couldn’t fit in with other women's supposedly perfect lives. This led to “shape shifting” into a make-believe normal life. Have you ever felt this way?
Let me lead your women through the way God sees us, no matter where we came from. As a trauma-informed coach through Freedom Movement, I can show your women how to release the shame and begin to live authentically. They will walk away with some beginning steps to release the shame they may have walked in with.
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Get The Books
Shop the book that started it all, UnMothered: Life With A Mom Who Couldn't Love Me, and other books I've published or contributed to are in my shop.
Shop the most recent book I have published, UnMothered No More, available for pre-sale today! This book is a companion to my first book, and it is more of a journal style.
This is a great resource if you are just getting started with your journey and are unsure about one-on-one coaching at the moment.
Let’s Hear What People Have To Say About Coaching. . .
“You can absolutely trust Phylis to help you with your mother journey. . .I wish you could be my life coach and not just my mother journey coach!”
— Past Client
“I look for a person who has walked in my shoes, and who can inspire me to see what is ahead of me… Our coaching calls gave me a compass when I was afraid to walk into my new assignment.”
—Tracy Hester
“Since my coaching with Phylis, I have a better view on my relationship with my mother. I have learned to accept my mother where she is and to not let her struggles get in the way of my healing.”
