How Would You Define Your Relationship With Your Mother?
If it is getting harder and harder to share your life with your mother, then let’s talk about 1-on-1 life coaching. There is no need to waste another day looking around at everyone else’s families and wondering why you cannot have the same.
Do You Feel
Shame from the secrets of your past.
Your self-esteem may be compromised.
You struggle with trust issues in relationships.
Stuck in not living a fulfilled life.
That you are responsible for your mom’s happiness.
There is a fear “I won’t be a good mom. Look how I was raised!”
If any of this sound like your life, it may be time to reevaluate what you want it to look like moving forward. There is no need to waste another day looking around at everyone else’s families and wondering why you cannot have the same.
Patience & Grace Life Coaching
Patience & Grace Life Coaching
Hi, I’m Phylis Mantelli
I honored a mom who at times was hard to love. I understand the fine line between wanting a normal loving mother and having a mom who can not be present. Are you tired of circling around the same problem daily, year after year? It is time to rewrite the script and communicate better, find good mentors, love through the un-loveable parts, and break generational dysfunction. It starts with you.
Over the last 5 years, I have coached hundreds of women
As unmothered women, we have been stuck in struggles with our own mothers. I have cleared the path for each woman to find grounding in their own life. I will walk you through the lessons I have learned from dealing with a difficult mom. You will become more confident and stronger in your decisions moving forward.
Let us Get You on The Road to Healing with Patience and Grace Life Coaching
Patience and Grace Life Coaching is a six-week step-by-step coaching program for women with unhealthy pasts. During the six weeks, I will guide you through my signature framework that has helped hundreds of women to heal from habits of the past generations and attain the life they have dreamed of. They will:
Begin the healing relationship within themselves.
Break off poor generational habits.
Create a promising future.
Start the process of rebuilding their confidence to trust in good relationships.
Be more in love with the path that God wants for you.
One bonus week of a Q &A on any questions you may have from a specific lesson you may need extra help in. With time reflect on how far you have come from the beginning of the course.
This one-on-one coaching is right for you if. . .
You have ever felt abandoned by your mom
If you feel you are ready to exchange better habits and outcomes from the ones you were raised in.
If you felt like you never had a safe place to go to
Are excited to become a more positive woman for yourself and your family.
You are exhausted trying to please toxic parents
You feel like you are ready for the healing process to begin.
As A Life Coach & Mentor, I have . . .
Here’s What My Clients Are Saying. . .
What To Expect In This
6 Week Program
Week 1: Breaking Generational Dysfunctions
In this first week we will learn how the past has more to do with your future than you think. You will be discovering the hard questions of the past.
We will be digging through where your mother’s dysfunction may have come from. I will show you how to start creating new habits for your future.
Week 2: Setting Boundaries
In this week we will find out who is holding you back from being the person you crave. It may be time to set some boundaries!
You will learn to write a new narrative to your story. This may include pushing some family members back from intruding on your space.
Week 3: Finding Good Mama Mentors
Week three will help you develop some good mentors to come alongside you and support your new journey. This is key in staying strong in your new venture.
Everyone needs support of good women around them and now is your time to lean on them. We will go over ways to find them if you do not have them currently in your life.
Week 4: Seeking a Bright Path and Walking Through It!
This is where your spiritual foundation will grow. This lesson will have step by step habits that will become a part of your daily walk.
This is important to be able to start looking at your life through a different lens. Your confidence will grow as you discover your true path.
Week 5: Grace Through the Unlovable
We are on the homestretch and this week will be a lesson in forgiveness. There will be hard truths of seeing who your mom has decided who she wants to be. It may not look like the mom you wanted.
You have a choice to decide to love her right where she is. We will discuss ways to love a mother who is difficult, and whether you speak to her or never see her, you will find a grace in your heart for peace.
Week 6: Leave a Loving Legacy
We hit the final session! This will be a sweet time of talking over the new habits you have gained from this course. You will have a clear vision of what your future will look like.
Where you go from here will be up to you with using the lessons you have learned so far. What kind of legacy do you want to leave? Let’s talk about it.
What’s Included?
Weekly Zoom Calls
Signature workbook for each lesson
Lifetime Access to the Unmothered Community Facebook Page
Weekday Email Availability
Encouragement and Accountability
Pricing Information
A FREE 30-minute consultation
2 payments of $750 OR One payment of $1500
After completing the form an automated email will be sent from Honeybook with a link to schedule our FREE 30-minute consultation to ensure we are the right fit for one another.
You can break out of that generational dysfunction and create a different environment than what you were raised in.
I’m the author of the book Unmothered, Life With A Mom Who Couldn’t Love Me. I wrote this memoir in 2019 to share my story with all the women out there who feel like they are repeating their mother’s toxic patterns.
As I worked more and more with women I started to see that my story was necessary to share. In my memoir, I describe the roller-coaster journey of my life growing up with an alcoholic, narcissistic mother who was too unstable to care for me.
I was often made to feel worthless as a daughter and had to take on the role of “mother to my mother”. After years of heartbreaking disappointments, I realized that the effect of our dysfunctional past was becoming my new "normal.”
Eventually, I was able to break free from the pain of my past and God has given me the heart of a daughter who loves her mother unconditionally. While her habits and hurts didn’t change, I could change and create a better lifestyle for myself.
FAQs
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Yes! You can pay in full or split it up into two payments of $1750
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This program is 6 weeks total with one bonus week if you feel like you need just one more lesson
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I’m working on that course currently! If you are interested, send me an email at hello@phylismantelli.com