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My Passion. . .

Is speaking to young women and helping them through their dysfunctional past. I love to see the progression in a woman’s life, and the happiness on her face when she is finally at peace with the healthy decisions she makes.

At that moment, I feel confident that God has placed me on the right path.

My hope is that my work will plant seeds for the life you deserve and desire. Then you will begin to find the peace you need to move forward.

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Hi, I’m Phylis,


I’m an author, speaker, and life coach based in the Bay Area of California. I have so many more titles but the one I hold closest to my heart is an UnMothered woman just like you. I struggled so much with my relationship with my mom that I wrote a book about it. Now I talk about the toxic relationship you might have with your own mother, and how to break out of that generational pattern. You deserve to have a life different than what you grew up in.

I see you, I believe in you, and God loves you.