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For Women Struggling With A Mother-Daughter Relationship

From toxic mother-daughter relationships to teaching women about fashion, I can speak and coach on inspiring topics that build your confidence and change old negative patterns. I want to teach women how to navigate their life if they are struggling with past dysfunction. 

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Hi, I’m Phylis or your next Mama Mentor

When I first started this journey, I was a Mama Mentor to some women, helping them navigate their troubled relationships with their mothers. In 2019 I published the book Unmothered: Life With A Mom Who Couldn’t Love Me and it started a movement of some sort. I started speaking on the topic, coaching women one-on-one, and now I’m talking about it in headphones over a podcast. 

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Author | Speaker | Podcaster | Life Coach

I’m an ‘unmothered’ just like you,

I knew that my home life needed to be different from the one I grew up in. I worked to change the generational dysfunctions that were taught to me. Now I have a 30+ year marriage, two beautiful daughters, one son-in-love, and two amazing grandchildren. My greatest joy is being their ‘Phee Phee’ (grandma) but also the joy of helping other women break the toxic patterns that were taught to them. 

If I’m not speaking or writing, I’m usually on Instagram or YouTube sharing about lifestyle things like clothes and makeup (because really I’m just a girly girl at heart). I recently started ‘The UnMothered Podcast’ where I share encouragement and tips on how to navigate this difficult thing called life.

Patience and Grace One-on-One Coaching

Do you feel you are the parent in your relationship with your mother? How do you build a healthy relationship with your family when you grew up in a dysfunctional one? Are you ready to create that life and family you dream of and desire? Then you are ready to take the plunge into a journey of growth and transformation. My one-on-one coaching program takes you through the six life lessons I’ve learned along the way. Contact me today for a FREE 30-minute consultation.

Speaking For Your Next Event

I grew up with an alcoholic, narcissistic mother who rarely gave me words of affirmation or encouragement. How do you rebuild self-esteem when all you have seen is chaos? How do you break away from the toxic parent who raised you? With my journey and awakening to a steadfast love of Jesus, I will lead your listeners through my story of breaking through the pain and becoming a daughter who loves her mom unconditionally. I’m a certified AWSA speaker/writer coach specializing in helping write memoirs and an accredited personality coach with the LINKED®️ program.

I look for a person who has walked in my shoes, and who can inspire me to see what is ahead of me… Our coaching calls gave me a compass when I was afraid to walk into my new assignment.”

—Tracy Hester

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